Q #7: How can I see my gf who is grounded?

A teenager wrote that he had spent months setting up plans for his gf and him, however before that special night arrived she was grounded by her parents.  He asked how he could see her in spite of this.  Here is what I wrote to him.
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I know it sucks to put so much effort into a plan and have it ruined like that. It is really frustrating. Is it possible for you to do the plans another night when she is not grounded?

Respecting the situation and her parents, while sucks now, will ultimately help your GF in the long run. She has to work on following the rules so she doesn't get grounded again! Also, her parents will appreciate your support and trust you more if you are not getting her into more trouble.

Are you still able to talk to her on the phone at all? Maybe you could cheer her up on Friday and do an IM chat or phone call with her? I am sure she is pretty bummed about the whole thing too. Or maybe you could see if her parents would allow you to hang out there at the house with her? 
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Have you ever had plans ruined that you were looking forward to?  How did you deal with the disappointment?  Comment below!


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